Your true love might be really somewhere on the other part of the globe from you, so there is a sense to try and find her. Unfortunately, with the growing popularity of Ukrainian and Russian online dating services, the number of online scams is also rapidly growing. So, before you fall in love with a wonderful Ukrainian woman online, you should make sure she is real. How to find out if a woman you met online is not fake? That’s not so difficult, simply pay attention to the following red flags.
1) SHE REFUSES TO VIDEO CHAT OR HAVE A PHONE CONVERSATION.
When you meet a girl online and communicate for some time, it’s normal to have a video conversation. Most dating sites provide such an opportunity, so there are almost no obstacles for a woman to come and chat with you online. Even if she doesn’t speak your language, she might have the assistance of a free translator at the agency, so there will be no problem for her to communicate with you even without speaking common language.
Of course, a Ukrainian woman might be working hard and have not too much time to come to the agency and have a video chat. But if she has constant excuses every time you invite her to chat, that’s a red flag. You have to see her in real at least once during your online communication. Get concerned if you get excuses all the time. This person might be hiding something from you or simply doesn’t exist at all.
2) SHE DOESN’T SEND YOU HER EVERYDAY- LIFE PICTURES.
Of course, beautiful pictures in her profile were something that attracted you at first. And in the process of communication you both exchange your everyday pictures, pictures of your family, with friends, from different trips, selfies, etc. And if you ask a woman to send you her everyday pictures in some time of your communication and read different excuses instead of getting photos, think well if that woman is real at all. Everyone has pictures, even those people who do not really like to pose.
Besides, watching a Ukrainian girl’s real-life picture will create an idea of how she looks like in reality. So, exchanging everyday pictures is an important step. Don’t forget to send your pictures to your girl as well, so she could get an idea on your life.
3) SHE DOESN’T ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS.
Asking questions each other is a good way to get to know each other. And you surely ask your Ukrainian woman about her life, her parents, family, kids, not only general ones, but some details as well, including names, dates, bread of her dog or cat, etc.
And if a woman doesn’t answer those questions or distracts your attention from it, so you change the topic, that’s a real red flag. If a woman knows everything about you, but you feel you know nothing about her, this must concern you. If you are open and share information and a woman behaves sneaky, most likely she’s fake.
4) HER STORIES DO NOT MATCH UP.
In case a Ukrainian woman is pretending someone she is not, it’s very difficult to remember everything she told you. From time to time you might notice her answers to the same questions do not coincide. Think that’s just a pure coincidence? That’s not the reason to think everyone on the dating sites is a scammer and to investigate each of her words.
But when it happens a woman says she has no siblings but in one of her letters she mentions her brother, for example, pay attention to such things. Such misunderstandings and mismatches in the information she provides should be red flags for you.
5) SHE REFUSES TO MEET IN REAL LIFE.
So, you have been communicating for some time and you decide to come and meet the girl of your dreams in real. You are happy to tell her about your intentions and expect the best reaction ever. But…instead of happiness you read multiple reasons on why she can’t meet you now.
Of course, there might be reasons for not making it at the moment. But when a woman delays your meeting within a long period of time, you should become more alert. Does she hide something from you? Or maybe the person you communicate with doesn’t exist at all.
About the blogger: Katrina El, a practicing psychologist, professional matchmaker and founder of the Slavic marriage agency Best-Matchmaking.com.
Best-Matchmaking.com is the devoted International Marriage and Matchmaking agency for single Western men with serious intention to meet Slavic women for dating and marriage. Our matrimonial agency has been in business for more than 10 years.
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